What We Ate Wednesday: Starring My 11 Year Old

I’m not gonna lie: This wasn’t a banner day for my 11 year old. Too much sugar. Not enough veggies. I could go on. To be perfectly honest, part of me was tempted to scrap What We Ate Wednesday altogether and fake some kind of blog technical malfunction. But the whole point of WWAW is to give a real-life snapshot of what we ACTUALLY eat. And let’s face it, that’s not always kale and quinoa.

BREAKFAST

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My son is a mad lover of simple carbs. He could exist on dry cereal and pretzels if I let him. So lately we’ve been talking a lot about balance and the importance of including protein and fresh food in each meal. So he had a mix of plain and vanilla yogurt, topped with a sprinkle of KIND granola clusters, and some sliced strawberries. And of course, a bowl of dry cereal (in this case, Envirokidz Gorilla Munch).

LUNCH

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He is one tough customer when it comes to a lunch box. The number of foods he will reliably eat in a packed lunch has narrowed considerably over the years. He argues that so many foods just taste better at home. I get that–but it’s still frustrating. I especially struggle with finding fresh fruit that he’ll eat in a lunch box, so I frequently rely of fruit cups. In this lunch, he had a PBJ on whole wheat, pretzels, pears in juice, chopped kiwi, and a box of Horizon vanilla milk. He dumped the lunchbox leftovers in the sink before I could get an “after” photo, but he ate everything except the crusts of his sandwiches and the kiwi.

AFTER-SCHOOL SNACKS

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Now that he’s a middle-schooler with a little more independence, he’s making some of his own food choices. He stayed after school to get started on homework and bought a small bag of Sun Chips from the vending machine. When he got home, he had a plate of cheese with ALDI-brand crackers and a sliced granny smith apple.

DINNER

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Every month, I organize a dinner at the local food pantry/community center. Families from our elementary school put together a potluck dinner for those in the community who are in need of a meal. We had a big crowd and ran out of almost everything by the time the volunteers got a plate. So even though this little display of a buttered roll, green salad with ranch, mini cupcake, and scone looks like a sad dinner, it was pretty much all that was left, so I couldn’t fault him. (And I was psyched he chose salad with no input from me.)

BEDTIME SNACK

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We got home close to bedtime after serving the dinner and helping to unload the food donations truck that comes to the community center each week. He made himself a “cracker sandwich” with two Wasa crackers, a slice of ham, and a piece of cheddar.

Next week: Me!

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10 Comments

  1. Love that you talked about “real cheese,” he’s lucky to have a dietitian as a mom!

    1. Samantha–Yes, there are tons of opportunities to have really good, interesting conversations with kids about food. They hear so many things in commercials, from friends, online, that it creates a lot of great interactions.

  2. hahah, I love that your son tried to convince you that the chips were made with real cheese, that is great! I appreciate the honesty, nobody likes to see a perfect WWAW, that’s not the point!

  3. Love the urge to ‘fake some type of blog malfunction’ but I’m so glad you shared. Like you said, it’s reassuring to know that even dietitian and healthy food bloggers’ kids eat this way and it’s not the end of the world. More importantly, look at the lessons he’s learning by participating in these food pantry community dinners every month – bravo mama.

  4. I don’t think you should feel so bad. Sure, there’s room for improvement, but his snacks actually seem quite solid nutritionally to me. And no doubt you know more about this than I do, but I think kids must actually need a lot more carbs than we adults do. It seems that in many (or all?) cultures around the world, little kids more or less subsist on bland carbs. I was also noticing as I read my son “Mary Poppins” the other day that the children’s “tea,” which is their evening meal, basically consists of some combination of bread, milk, and sweets.

    About the ranch dressing, my theory is that the salad you actually eat is better for you than the salad that doesn’t get eating, and usually that means dressing!

      1. Good post! A friend was just telling me recently about her brother’s kids, who were at first allowed to eat everything with either ranch dressing or ketchup, and eventually learned to like all those foods, so they would eat them without the condiments. Sounds like a good strategy to me.

  5. Thanks for sharing a food day for your son. My kids are the same way. I shake my head at them sometimes and wonder if I’ve taught them anything about making wise choices in their eating. But then they turn around and do make good choices. I’ve noticed as they get older they’re starting to notice how what they eat affects how they feel – or how they perform in sports. So even though they have days where they choose a little more sugar or don’t eat their veggies, they balance it out with healthier choices later on. Again, thanks for sharing and being open and real. 🙂