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My Pre-Dinner Snack Strategy

by Sally on April 1, 2013

There’s nothing more maddening at mealtime than sitting down to a dinner you’ve spent 45 minutes to prepare only to have your kids push aside their plates because they’re already full. On pretzels.

Navigating the hour before dinner is tough with children–especially young kids, for whom “dinner will be ready in 10 minutes” sounds more like “dinner will never, ever be ready and you will starve right here on the kitchen floor”. When he was younger, my preschooler Sam was particularly challenging at the 5pm Witching Hour, literally scaling the cabinets to get snacks when I turned my back to stir something on the stove.

Over the years, I’ve tried a few different pre-dinner approaches for my hungry kids–a handful of whole grain crackers, half an apple, no snacks at all–but I finally settled on a system that works.

Our house rule: If you’re hungry in the hour before dinner, you may have an “appetizer” of veggies. Or you can simply wait for dinner.

When I first established this a year ago, my older son was cool with it. Most nights, he waits to eat until dinner. My youngest, however, was (understatement alert!) not pleased. But after a few weeks, he adjusted, and now happily scarfs down all manner of veggies. The best part: Because he’s truly hungry, he’s open to trying new vegetables. He’s eaten bowls of plain romaine hearts, big stalks of celery, and plates of roasted Brussels Sprouts. He’s currently on a sugar snap pea kick.

This pre-dinner hour is also when my boys are allowed to have screen time (computer, video games, or TV). I’m not bothered by the sight of my kids nibbling vegetables while watching “Rescue Bots”. There are worse things than associating TV with mindlessly eating carrot sticks.

I’ll admit: There are nights when Sam gets full on veggies and just picks at his dinner. So we simply save his plate and heat it back up for him when he’s hungry an hour later.

How do you avoid over-snacking before dinner in your house? What works for you?

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This is a guest post and recipe by my friend Citizen MomOn a recent visit to her house, I tried her homemade pizza and knew it would be a hit with my kids. The crust was thin and soft — the kind you can slice into big, floppy triangles and fold in half. And I was right: After the first bite, Henry asked, “Mom, did you order this pizza?” Success!

Yeasted doughs, especially for pizza, had always been one of those mysteries of cookery to me — some kind of kitchen alchemy to which I wasn’t privy. A few early attempts at pizza dough turned out inedible and tough (certainly due to overzealous kneading) or unrisen because of old yeast or water at the wrong temperature.

Of course, going by the “even bad pizza is still pretty good” rule, we still ate it. I mean, duh.

It’s taken me months, but I finally have the recipe and techniques right where I want them. And as a bonus, Friday Night Pizza is now a “thing” in our house, something my son looks forward to helping with too.

Here’s my basic recipe (see printable version at bottom of post):

In the bowl of a standing mixer fitted with a paddle, place 1 cup bread flour, yeast, salt and sugar. Mix to combine. Add water in a slow, steady stream, and mix until you have a yeasty paste, about 2 minutes.

Replace paddle with dough hook, and scrape bottom and sides of bowl. With mixer on medium speed, add the rest of the flour. Once all the flour is in, turn off the mixer and scrape down the bowl one more time. Add a bit more flour or water to get the right consistency — you want it to completely pull away from the sides of the bowl.

Knead with dough hook on medium-high speed about four minutes. The dough should be smooth, soft, and stretchy.

Remove dough to a bowl coated with a bit of olive oil, and turn the dough over a few times to cover with oil (this will keep it from sticking to the bowl as it rises and will help it not stick to your pan later on).

Cover with plastic, set in a warm place, and let the dough rise until doubled in size.

Gently punch dough down, then cut the dough ball in half, and let the two pieces sit another 10 minutes.

Preheat oven or gas grill to 475 degrees; the high temperature is crucial for a quick-baking, “boardwalk-style” crust. From here, the key is to handle the dough as little as possible and with a light touch.

Coat the dough ball with flour, then press it into the pan. Eschew the rolling pin — the best tools here are your two hands. Place one hand flat on the dough near the center, to keep the dough in place, then use the fingers on the other hand to stretch and move the dough in a fan shape, turning the pan as you go. (If you’re brave and want to try stretching it like they do in a pizzeria, use your knuckles and not your fingertips. Trust me.)

Top your pizza. We like sweet sausage or spinach and tomato. But my newest favorite is olive oil, arugula, red onion, pistachios, rosemary and Fontina cheese — swiped from Pizzeria Stella in Philadelphia.

Bake 8 minutes, rotating pan halfway through. Rest pizza for 2 minutes before cutting.

Citizen Mom’s Pizza
Print
Author: Amy Z. Quinn
Yields two thin-crust,14-inch pies
Ingredients
  • 2 ¼ tsp (or 1 packet) active dry yeast
  • 2 cups bread flour
  • 1 ½ cups all-purpose or whole-wheat flour
  • 1 tsp salt
  • 2 tsp sugar
  • About 1 cup hot water (not boiling–about 115 degrees)
Instructions
  1. In bowl of standing mixer fitted with paddle, put 1 cup bread flour, yeast, salt and sugar. Mix to combine. Add water in a slow, steady stream, and mix until you have a yeasty paste, about 2 minutes.
  2. Replace paddle with dough hook, and scrape bottom and sides of bowl. With mixer on medium speed, add the rest of the flour. Once all the flour is in, turn off the mixer and scrape down the bowl one more time.
  3. Knead with dough hook on medium-high speed about four minutes. The dough should be smooth, soft and stretchy.
  4. Remove dough to a bowl coated with a bit of olive oil, and turn the dough over a few times to coat with the oil. Cover with plastic, set in a warm place, and let the dough rise until doubled in size.
  5. Gently punch dough down, then cut the dough ball in half, and let the two pieces sit another 10 minutes.
  6. Preheat oven or gas grill to 475 degrees.
  7. Coat dough ball with flour, then press into the pan. Add toppings.
  8. Bake 8 minutes, turning pan halfway through.
  9. Rest pizza for 2 minutes before cutting.

 

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